31 December 2013
Last post of 2013
As
2013 draws to a close, I can say that I'm glad that it's almost over, as
the year has been an interesting adventure for me. I am grateful for
friends and family that gave me the moral and emotional support I needed
to get through the year. I can only hope that the New Year will bring
bigger and better things in my life's journey. One final thought: wish
for others, what you wish for yourself, it's one of the ways we can
make the world better. Happy New Year everyone!!!
30 December 2013
Florida Hospital Sucks (my) ASS!!!
When your doctor comes into the exam room, and makes you repeat three times your case history, which means he didn't even look at the files beforehand AND asks openly "Do any of us know why this is happening?", it doesn't inspire confidence. The nurses had no clue as to how to help me, couldn't name part of the body, and made me repeat my case history another two times, and acted like they couldn't be bothered. At the end of the visit, I could tell them that their solutions to my problems have been tried and didn't work. What is wrong with this picture??? And when the damn doctor asks "Are you willing to try that?" like I'm a 4 year old, was patronizing and demeaning.
The originating Florida Hospital physician, who is well known and has a 'stellar' reputation in the system, keeps wanting to do biopsies, rather than refer me to someone that could get to the root of the problem and fix it.
My last previous two visits we good. I had confidence. However, I called the office to enquire about pain management after the first visit, and she started to quote policy, and said "without looking into your file, I'd use Advil or Tylenol." Not that I was going for drugs. It would have taken a minute to take down my info and get the message to the doctor. That was rude.
9 months of being in pain is unacceptable. As soon as I get my new insurance, I'm going elsewhere. This is ridiculous.
The originating Florida Hospital physician, who is well known and has a 'stellar' reputation in the system, keeps wanting to do biopsies, rather than refer me to someone that could get to the root of the problem and fix it.
My last previous two visits we good. I had confidence. However, I called the office to enquire about pain management after the first visit, and she started to quote policy, and said "without looking into your file, I'd use Advil or Tylenol." Not that I was going for drugs. It would have taken a minute to take down my info and get the message to the doctor. That was rude.
9 months of being in pain is unacceptable. As soon as I get my new insurance, I'm going elsewhere. This is ridiculous.
23 December 2013
China's Mandela problem
From CNN: China's Mandela Problem
Nelson Mandela might very well inspire the next generation of Chinese human rights activists, and give those who are being imprisoned for following his example hope.
Nelson Mandela might very well inspire the next generation of Chinese human rights activists, and give those who are being imprisoned for following his example hope.
Who's Afraid of the IKEA Wolf?
From BBC: Ikea toy wolf becomes Hong Kong protest symbol
Hong Kong's Chief Executive CY Leung ought to be. Who knew that something as innocuous as toy Wolf plush might have the potential to force a leadership change?
Hong Kongers have no love for this man, as he's seen as a puppet to Beijing.
From BBC: CY Leung: The troubles of Hong Kong's unloved leader
Hong Kong's Chief Executive CY Leung ought to be. Who knew that something as innocuous as toy Wolf plush might have the potential to force a leadership change?
Hong Kongers have no love for this man, as he's seen as a puppet to Beijing.
From BBC: CY Leung: The troubles of Hong Kong's unloved leader
China, Press Freedom and Censorship
A free press is important to the development of a society. It allows for the exchange of ideas, holding public officials and other entities accountable for their actions, and a voice to those who don't have one.
The Central Government allows such freedom when it's convenient for them. When it's not, they do things like make all journalists learn the party line, censor them and the media outlet they work for (which manifests itself differently, from harassment to legal action to firing the journalist). Most governments engage in some form of media damage control, however, the Central Government can't have it both ways, as the way this government does it, can be considered repression, manipulation, censorship in its extreme.
Now journalists are being forced to take an exam to make sure they understand quite clearly the Communist Party Line.
From Global Post: Chinese journalists face Marxist ideology exam
As mentioned above, governments do engage in damage control to varying degrees, however, the Central Government goes to the point to bullying foreign governments, media outlets, etc., to protect its image.
From CNN: How Chinese censorship is reaching overseas
The Central Government allows such freedom when it's convenient for them. When it's not, they do things like make all journalists learn the party line, censor them and the media outlet they work for (which manifests itself differently, from harassment to legal action to firing the journalist). Most governments engage in some form of media damage control, however, the Central Government can't have it both ways, as the way this government does it, can be considered repression, manipulation, censorship in its extreme.
Now journalists are being forced to take an exam to make sure they understand quite clearly the Communist Party Line.
From Global Post: Chinese journalists face Marxist ideology exam
As mentioned above, governments do engage in damage control to varying degrees, however, the Central Government goes to the point to bullying foreign governments, media outlets, etc., to protect its image.
From CNN: How Chinese censorship is reaching overseas
11 December 2013
Annoying Airplane Passenger Thinks She's The Only One Who Celebrates Thanksgiving
What a self-centered dumb cunt. Really! Though Elan was playing with fire, he was totally justified.
From Huffington Post: Annoying Airplane Passenger Thinks She's The Only One Who Celebrates Thanksgiving
From Huffington Post: Annoying Airplane Passenger Thinks She's The Only One Who Celebrates Thanksgiving
Idiot tourists
The behavior of some of these people -- which I've witnessed a bulk of this in Orlando and my travels worldwide -- really make me embarrassed to be human.
IT’S ENOUGH TO MAKE YOU CANCEL YOUR RESERVATION
Love ignorant people. Do your research, ask questions, learn a bit of Geography and Meteorology, as it is not the locals problem or responsibility if you didn't know something about the place in which you are vacationing.
IT’S ENOUGH TO MAKE YOU CANCEL YOUR RESERVATION
Love ignorant people. Do your research, ask questions, learn a bit of Geography and Meteorology, as it is not the locals problem or responsibility if you didn't know something about the place in which you are vacationing.
From Upworthy: A 15-Year-Old Ad About Racism
From Upworthy: A 15-Year-Old Ad About Racism Is A Great Reminder Of The Power We All Have To Promote Justice
The story itself has circulated through social media for years. Here's the commercial this story was based upon.
The story itself has circulated through social media for years. Here's the commercial this story was based upon.
21 Questions Asian People Are Sick Of Answering
Yes, I get this a lot in its many variations.
From Buzz Feed: 21 Questions Asian People Are Sick Of Answering
From Buzz Feed: 21 Questions Asian People Are Sick Of Answering
Spinning your way out of smog
From BBC: Spinning your way out of smog
Central Government: This is the biggest crock of shit I've heard. Really? Why don't you be constructive and actually fix the pollution problems in your cities than trying to be cute and creative by bullshitting plausible positives of the situation.
Central Government: This is the biggest crock of shit I've heard. Really? Why don't you be constructive and actually fix the pollution problems in your cities than trying to be cute and creative by bullshitting plausible positives of the situation.
US urges China to release Nobel Peace laureate Liu Xiaobo
From BBC: US urges China to release Nobel Peace laureate Liu Xiaobo
The Central Government needs to grow the fuck up and let Mr Liu out of prison, and let him and his family leave China. And stop taking its domestic policy issues out on Norway.
The Central Government needs to grow the fuck up and let Mr Liu out of prison, and let him and his family leave China. And stop taking its domestic policy issues out on Norway.
'Locust' haters told to remember their roots
From the Standard: 'Locust' haters told to remember their roots
Hong Kongers remember their roots? Their home is being invaded by Mainland Chinese who strain resources in housing, real estate, food, etc. And they're fucking unappreciative of what Hong Kong has to offer them.
I compare it to having an unwelcome unannounced guest that has overstayed their welcome.
Hong Kongers remember their roots? Their home is being invaded by Mainland Chinese who strain resources in housing, real estate, food, etc. And they're fucking unappreciative of what Hong Kong has to offer them.
I compare it to having an unwelcome unannounced guest that has overstayed their welcome.
23 October 2013
More Chinese News
Whistle blowers against Central Government graft should be rewarded, not punished. Otherwise, nothing will ever change, and the pressure cooker of discontent boils harder and faster.
From AP: Chinese newspaper urges police to release reporter
China is beautiful, but I wish I could see it through the smog and NOT get sick from the pollution. And I want others to see the beauty of the 'Middle Kingdom' safely and sanely
From AP: 'Beautiful China' tourism pitch misfires amid smog
From AP: Chinese newspaper urges police to release reporter
China is beautiful, but I wish I could see it through the smog and NOT get sick from the pollution. And I want others to see the beauty of the 'Middle Kingdom' safely and sanely
From AP: 'Beautiful China' tourism pitch misfires amid smog
The Rohingya
Let us take a step back from Hong Kong and Chinese drama to concentrate on other oppressed peoples.
The Rohingya have lived in Myanmar/Burma for centuries, and because of their Muslim faith and the color of their skin, have been stripped of their citizenship, their births, marriages and deaths not recognized by the state, forced to live in specific areas without freedom of movement, and denied services like health care and education. They are, in affect, people without a country, and are treated as unwelcome guests.
The recent episodes of racial/ethnic violence were created by the Buddhist majority, just simply because they want the Rohingya out of their country. And the new government promises action, but has yet to make a concerted effort to make the violence stop.
Aung San Suu Kyi reluctantly acknowledges their existence, but doesn't do anything about it, like encourage ethnic harmony for starters. Isn't she the one, that fought for the freedom for everyone in her country for the past 25 years?
Here's some links from my friends from Global Post that may help you understand how dire it really is: Global Post: Rohingya Search
The Rohingya have lived in Myanmar/Burma for centuries, and because of their Muslim faith and the color of their skin, have been stripped of their citizenship, their births, marriages and deaths not recognized by the state, forced to live in specific areas without freedom of movement, and denied services like health care and education. They are, in affect, people without a country, and are treated as unwelcome guests.
The recent episodes of racial/ethnic violence were created by the Buddhist majority, just simply because they want the Rohingya out of their country. And the new government promises action, but has yet to make a concerted effort to make the violence stop.
Aung San Suu Kyi reluctantly acknowledges their existence, but doesn't do anything about it, like encourage ethnic harmony for starters. Isn't she the one, that fought for the freedom for everyone in her country for the past 25 years?
Here's some links from my friends from Global Post that may help you understand how dire it really is: Global Post: Rohingya Search
The HKTV Saga
This is a fight between a Legislative body that's allegedly pro-Beijing, a newly appointed Chief Executive that's allegedly pro-Beijing, market forces, protecting free speech, enforcing government transparency and openness, and jobs. To me, this all comes across as the Central Government's bid to whittle away at the Basic Law bit by bit before 2047, which they've already started to do.
The Story Starts Here....
The Chief Executive's Idiocy:
The Standard: Chief Executive Leung Chun-ying made the ultimate decision to reject HKTV's free-to-air TV license
The Protest on Sunday:
From BBC: Thousands of people protest in Hong Kong at what they see as a lack of official transparency, after a local TV network was refused a licence.
Then, there's the jobs. It gets personal:
The Standard: Anger over real-life drama
The HKTV Owner's reaction:
The Standard: 'Don't infuriate me ...'
Popular Support:
The Standard: Two film directors enter frame in HKTV row
And finally, the CE's weak response:
The Standard: 'We can't please everyone'
The English language press glosses over local HK news. For those who can read Traditional Chinese, I encourage you to go read the Chinese Language versions of the news, because they are more revealing and detailed.
The Story Starts Here....
The Chief Executive's Idiocy:
The Standard: Chief Executive Leung Chun-ying made the ultimate decision to reject HKTV's free-to-air TV license
The Protest on Sunday:
From BBC: Thousands of people protest in Hong Kong at what they see as a lack of official transparency, after a local TV network was refused a licence.
Then, there's the jobs. It gets personal:
The Standard: Anger over real-life drama
The HKTV Owner's reaction:
The Standard: 'Don't infuriate me ...'
Popular Support:
The Standard: Two film directors enter frame in HKTV row
And finally, the CE's weak response:
The Standard: 'We can't please everyone'
The English language press glosses over local HK news. For those who can read Traditional Chinese, I encourage you to go read the Chinese Language versions of the news, because they are more revealing and detailed.
20 October 2013
Art of War is the wrong way to make friends
Global Post: China and the art of (losing) war
The Art of War as a foreign policy is not a way to make friends and influence people. One of the most annoying things I find about how the Central Government act. One makes friends by dialogue that make it a win win situation, and not act like bullies and intimidate. Obviously, the Chinese Premier hasn't figured it out yet.
The Art of War as a foreign policy is not a way to make friends and influence people. One of the most annoying things I find about how the Central Government act. One makes friends by dialogue that make it a win win situation, and not act like bullies and intimidate. Obviously, the Chinese Premier hasn't figured it out yet.
18 October 2013
Stand up and know your worth
Always
stand up for what you know you're worth. We're going through that with a
long time client right now. And remember your name and reputation is
part of the brand/service you represent. There are people and companies
out there that will respect your values and what you offer them. People
think I'm a hard ass, but at least I know what my company, my products
and services, and my crew are worth and not afraid to say so. Go for
quality clients, the ones that treat you with respect, regardless of how
much they're paying. Go for projects that make you happy and challenge
you, as long as they're doing good by you, it's good. Finally as you
create your client base, stay close to the ones who value and respect
you.
And yes, as an actor and artist, I have had to say no many times over money, work conditions, and the fact that I thought the production or show was not up to my standards, for whatever the reason. It's good to have standards, one needs to learn when to be flexible with them as needed.
And yes, as an actor and artist, I have had to say no many times over money, work conditions, and the fact that I thought the production or show was not up to my standards, for whatever the reason. It's good to have standards, one needs to learn when to be flexible with them as needed.
How to ruin a perfectly good friendship/relationship
This is what one can do to make me either: a) distance myself from them and/or b) quietly end the friendship.
Yes I do judge people by how they treat me and the people around me, strangers, and those who are service employees. I do expect respect, courtesy, and if it escalates, taken aside for discussion. I know I have a temper, but I stop before I explode and start working behind the scenes to get it corrected, as I have mastered letter/email writing and phone calling. In the US, I do not appreciate scenes. Overseas, it may be a different story depending on the situation.
What I find repugnant is people that feel the need to act pretentious. It's so affected and fake, especially around service employees, because it turns into a power game. I have a friend that does that all the time with others, but alone with me, he drops the act. It makes the individual look stupid by pretending they are something they are not. It is like this friend has become the person that, 20 years ago, complained about. And that is sad, because it proves to me, that my friend hasn't grown up, and he's roughly the same age as me.
Respect me, and my life decisions. I may have made some stupid mistakes, and I bitch about them, however, I stand by them for specific reasons. Don't judge me, just be my friend, and shut up and listen. I may need to vent or express something. Don't offer advice to me, unless I ask for it, as I prefer to listen to my own counsel. There are people I don't talk to about anything, because they just can't shut up and listen, and always have an opinion about what I should be doing. I'm bad at that too, but I'm working on listening and asking questions as a way to help the other person understand their situation.
I am no one's dog. I am my own person. I have my life, responsibilities, duties, etc. apart from you. We have evolved differently and are on two different paths and worldviews now. In life, the nature of the friendship can and often does change. To a dear friend, please accept that, because our friendship is evolving as we speak. And please don't assume I will be there when we grow old, I will probably go before you, given my family's health history.
Professionally, I do not appreciate being constantly discounted or devalued, nor do I appreciate lack of transparency and respect for me as a person to not approach me directly. Can't talk to me? Don't go to the boss, where the message will be diluted, if it's ever discussed. Find a non-direct way to tell me I have offended you. I also don't really like people that go around my back and undermine me and my efforts, however well intentioned. I despise those who can't treat their co-workers with respect and dignity. A former manager who sold me down the river because I declined a promotion over pay, has lost my total respect and admiration.
I've just voiced a number things that can make me sever or distance from the friendship/relationship. If it applies to you, it actually does. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Please heed this as a warning.
Yes I do judge people by how they treat me and the people around me, strangers, and those who are service employees. I do expect respect, courtesy, and if it escalates, taken aside for discussion. I know I have a temper, but I stop before I explode and start working behind the scenes to get it corrected, as I have mastered letter/email writing and phone calling. In the US, I do not appreciate scenes. Overseas, it may be a different story depending on the situation.
What I find repugnant is people that feel the need to act pretentious. It's so affected and fake, especially around service employees, because it turns into a power game. I have a friend that does that all the time with others, but alone with me, he drops the act. It makes the individual look stupid by pretending they are something they are not. It is like this friend has become the person that, 20 years ago, complained about. And that is sad, because it proves to me, that my friend hasn't grown up, and he's roughly the same age as me.
Respect me, and my life decisions. I may have made some stupid mistakes, and I bitch about them, however, I stand by them for specific reasons. Don't judge me, just be my friend, and shut up and listen. I may need to vent or express something. Don't offer advice to me, unless I ask for it, as I prefer to listen to my own counsel. There are people I don't talk to about anything, because they just can't shut up and listen, and always have an opinion about what I should be doing. I'm bad at that too, but I'm working on listening and asking questions as a way to help the other person understand their situation.
I am no one's dog. I am my own person. I have my life, responsibilities, duties, etc. apart from you. We have evolved differently and are on two different paths and worldviews now. In life, the nature of the friendship can and often does change. To a dear friend, please accept that, because our friendship is evolving as we speak. And please don't assume I will be there when we grow old, I will probably go before you, given my family's health history.
Professionally, I do not appreciate being constantly discounted or devalued, nor do I appreciate lack of transparency and respect for me as a person to not approach me directly. Can't talk to me? Don't go to the boss, where the message will be diluted, if it's ever discussed. Find a non-direct way to tell me I have offended you. I also don't really like people that go around my back and undermine me and my efforts, however well intentioned. I despise those who can't treat their co-workers with respect and dignity. A former manager who sold me down the river because I declined a promotion over pay, has lost my total respect and admiration.
I've just voiced a number things that can make me sever or distance from the friendship/relationship. If it applies to you, it actually does. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Please heed this as a warning.
04 October 2013
The state of things with me
Please
don't mistake my frustration for anger, passion for bitterness. This
old man is tired, exhausted and in serious need of a break. I must
somehow reclaim 'The Quan' for myself. (A Jerry Maguire reference for
which Cuba Gooding Jr won an Academy.)
03 October 2013
Alma Mater, Hail to Thee
....You are that part of me....
--My High School's Alma Mater song
It's interesting to read/hear/see stuff ones alma mater says about you. It's a good laugh, because its not worth it to me to break 25 years of silence and open up unnecessary crap again. Besides, the most important people to me are the ones in my life now.
01 October 2013
30 September 2013
Republicans give me gas!
I'm not advocating anything, but....
If the instigators of this political fiasco were to somehow disappear (translation Republicans and their Tea Party rejects), I would not cry for them. They messed up our economy, our society and our way of life. I cannot in good conscious forgive them for the damage they have done to my country, our country.
27 September 2013
People of faith? Intolerant?!? Nahhh...
A thought:
If people would stop being fixated on 'moral' issues and actually concentrate on being good practitioners of their faiths, there wouldn't be this kind of intolerance for others, who may not believe as they do.
If people would stop being fixated on 'moral' issues and actually concentrate on being good practitioners of their faiths, there wouldn't be this kind of intolerance for others, who may not believe as they do.
These 'moral' issues are a distraction in the relationship between an individual and their faith. I figure, once they actually become good practitioners, things like abortion, gay rights, women clergy, poverty and other injustices, will find their answers.
Being fervent in those issues, though I can respect that, don't help us get along with our neighbors, make friends outside our communities, show that we are all good people -- regardless of what we worship -- who have compassion, mercy, love and kindness, the ingredients of tolerance and acceptance.
Yes, I learned this from 'Little Mosque', on CBC, Hulu and Pivot.
25 September 2013
He helped you, and you did this?!? Shame!/Er half, und Sie hat das getan?? Schämen!
Um die Arschlöcher, die abgezockt einen Freund Hong Kong: Sie sollten sich schämen dafür, dass die böse Tat. Karma ist eine Schlampe! Sie wird eure Taten zurück zu zahlen Zehnfache. Möge Ihr Rückflug nach Hause abstürzt und Sie sterben einen qualvollen Tod. Das war nicht schön, was zu, dass jemand versucht, Ihnen zu zeigen, Güte und Ihnen dabei helfen.
To the assholes who ripped off a friend Hong Kong: You should be ashamed for doing that evil act. Karma is a bitch! She will pay your deeds back ten fold. May your return flight home crash and you die a painful death. That was not nice thing to do to someone that tried to show you kindness and help you.
To the assholes who ripped off a friend Hong Kong: You should be ashamed for doing that evil act. Karma is a bitch! She will pay your deeds back ten fold. May your return flight home crash and you die a painful death. That was not nice thing to do to someone that tried to show you kindness and help you.
23 September 2013
Gau and Gwai at bedtime
Bedtime at our house. Gwai was sitting in Gau's spot on the bed, so Gau sat on him.
Ethnically Ambiguous
From Everyday Feminism: I'm Not A Puzzle To Solve
As annoying as this is, I get this a lot, personally and professionally. My response usually is: "What do you think I am?", and make them squirm a bit. Or if I'm at work, and I get the question, "Where am I from?", I point to my name tag which clearly says SEATTLE.
There are many reasons I play this game back with them. I need to make sure people understand that there's more to me than my ethnicity and my nationality, and those two things have two different and distinct meanings. See me as Drew first. Understand what I'm all about. See past the superficial, and get to know me.
Unfortunately, there are many people around the world -- not just Americans -- that can't get past the physical appearance of others that aren't typical looks in their world/worldview. It's sad really.
"What this world needs now is love, sweet love... "
As annoying as this is, I get this a lot, personally and professionally. My response usually is: "What do you think I am?", and make them squirm a bit. Or if I'm at work, and I get the question, "Where am I from?", I point to my name tag which clearly says SEATTLE.
There are many reasons I play this game back with them. I need to make sure people understand that there's more to me than my ethnicity and my nationality, and those two things have two different and distinct meanings. See me as Drew first. Understand what I'm all about. See past the superficial, and get to know me.
Unfortunately, there are many people around the world -- not just Americans -- that can't get past the physical appearance of others that aren't typical looks in their world/worldview. It's sad really.
"What this world needs now is love, sweet love... "
Republicans: Get out of the way!
This is why I strongly feel that a good GOP legislator is a DEAD one. So tired of the Republicans holding responsible governance hostage and acting like spoiled and entitled brats because they will not embrace change and the changing reality that is the new United States. Get the fuck out of the way and let people in that will honestly and sincerely better for ALL Americans.
18 September 2013
Universal sufferage: Yes, no, maybe?
From Global Post: China to West: We don't need your help democratizing Hong Kong
Make up your mind, Central Government. Is it yes, no, maybe with strings attached? The people deserve this, don't mess with the Basic Law.
Spam, the food
BBC: South Korea's love affair with Spam
Spam is a staple in many Asian countries. Thank the soldiers stationed in Asia for introducing this delicacy.
Domestic worker tortured, employers sentenced
From BBC: HK Couple Tortured Indonesian Maid
As I mentioned yesterday, these contract workers will be amongst the most vulnerable in the new Hong Kong.
17 September 2013
Reflections on "The Rainbow Tour" 2013
I went to Asia this time around to try and land new clients, and was fairly successful. However, the pragmatic side of me waits with detachment and baited breath to actually get a work offer out of these companies. It's time to move on, as a business owner, as a person, and as an artist/entertainment professional.
I must explain something first: The title "Rainbow Tour" came from the musical Evita. Evita was beautiful, glamourous, and had that je ne sais quoi charismatic quality that can help influence things. She did after all, help her husband Juan Peron, get his presidency and stay in power. Regardless of the good and/or bad she did, I related to the charisma, beauty and her mission: to make friends and influence people.
I don't want to talk about what I accomplished on this trip in this post. I want to speak out about the things I saw, experienced and witnessed. What I experienced was a lot of injustice. I saw how ugly political and social agendas can be, though created with the best of intentions. Finally I witnessed what those things can do to people and societies that affects.
Hong Kong was interesting. It's been three years since my last visit. In my previous posts, I talk about how the civil rights of Hong Kongers -- The Basic Law -- is being chipped away at by Beijing. Way before its time, in 2047. A lot of signage was not bilingual -- English and Traditional Chinese. It was much harder to find someone who would talk to you in English. Though it did not bother me as much, as I utilized coping mechanisms I learned from assisting Latin American tourists at one of my jobs -- you know, the rude "I don't give a damn that you can't speak Spanish. Just pay me and leave. Thank you. Bye-bye!" mentality. I found it disturbing, as since Hong Kong has billed itself as "Asia's World City", that it isn't as international as it used to be. The majority of the signage that was bilingual was put out by the Government, as public service announcements.
People are mad, angry, and much more into themselves, as a result of Beijing's will being enforced. They will not have direct vote over their Chief Executive as promised. Mandarin and the system of indoctrination of the Communist Party will be imposed upon the youth in the next year or so, which means Cantonese will be gone in China, and can only be heard in overseas Chinese communities AND the youth will not hear about Tianamen Square in their history lessons. Even the police force is obligated to only support the pro-Beijing protesters. The rule of law is being trampled on.
And like Tibet and Xinjiang Autonomous Region, Hong Kong is being inundated by Mainland Chinese, who lack manners and social skills, and monopolize the cities' resources, driving consumer and property prices higher, in one of the most expensive cities in the world.
For example, infant formula, in many places, is something we take for granted. Because of food safety issues related to the quality of local brands and US/Aussie/European stocks can be hard to get, Mainlanders arrive in HK and hoard the supply. Retailers have imposed limits on how much they are allowed to buy, and they are reminded at Hong Kong International Airport, once more on how much they are allowed to take back to China, which is, I believe 2 canisters per party.
Mainland Trash (or Rubbish, if one prefers), I call them, are creating unnecessary conflict in a city whose problems seem to mount with their presence. Screw the economic benefit of Mainland money into the Hong Kong economy, it has many negative effects as well.
Hong Kongers did not choose this fate. It was decided for them, by Britain and Bejing. They should have had the right to choose, even if this is contrary to the Central Government's One China policy. I reckon that they are feeling disempowered, and are forced to accept the new order of things, without a fight. I guess Maggie Thatcher decided it wasn't worth the fight and getting NATO involved.
Unfortunately, the biggest losers will not be the Chinese Hong Kongers. It will be the expats, mainly of European decent, the Filipino/Indonesian/Malaysian contract workers, and the Indians are the decendants of the servants that the British brought with them. These people will be constantly reminded that they don't belong here, and will never successfully be integrated into HK society. Even with everything the Government has done to encourage diversity and integration.
A few years ago, I saw a Hong Kong Government video on the subject, where a white guy said he never had any problems dealing with anyone. Really? Is it because he's cloistered himself in expat circles and neighborhood, which offer a degree of protection and isolation, as well as support? What universe was he living in? Wow! I wonder if he is still in Hong Kong, how he feels about things as they have evolved into now.
What doesn't help is the HK English media doesn't report on the same things that the Chinese media does. So we get different impressions of what the reality is. It would be SO nice if we hear and see the same things that the locals do.
Singapore was refreshing. I felt more at home and safer than I ever did in HK. Which is weird, because I never really had serious drama there, save the crappy customer service bullshit. It kept its culture. It's cleaner. Though officially multi-lingual, English is widely spoken. I was impressed that a Singapore Post counter clerk went from Hindi, to Chinese, to Malay, and finally when dealing with me, English in a course of 20 minutes. Their system encourages diversity, as their history points out -- the city state was forced out of Malaysia over riots demanding equality for everyone.
Equality and prosperity comes at a price. Though one is allowed to vote for their government, their choices are few, as the ruling party has ruled since the formation of the country. There's a saying that is prominent with anything tourist oriented -- "Singapore is a Fine City" -- meaning on one hand, that it is a great place to visit, but on the other, one can get fined for the slightest infraction, like littering. Chewing Gum is banned and is confiscated upon arrival. Freedom of expression is tightly controlled. Another joke says that the only thing that Singaporeans can legally complain about without fear of jail is food.
The city has a better planned transit system, as cars are expensive to purchase, own and maintain there. MRT was easy to get around and had toilets at the stops. It just felt like home. More than Hong Kong ever did.
Malaysia is something I didn't get a chance to see much of. However, I am reminded of Cebu when Alan and I visited in 2006. Without the major tourist traps, casinos and traffic issues. But my escort and friend had given me the 411 about how this country works. Remember a few paragraphs ago I talked about equality?
There is a system that was created to distribute the wealth and social services to the poorest of Malaysians -- 60% of the country are Malay Muslims. The Malays get preferential treatment in housing, university, social services and government jobs. This leaves the Malaysians of Chinese and Indian decent, as well as the indigenous peoples out of this equation. The Chinese and Indians create the bulk of Malaysian wealth, but aren't allowed to participate fully.
The elections in May were racked with allegations of fraud, and many Malaysians regard it as a joke. One of the major issues was this system, this 'great equalizer'. Unless this is reformed, it is reported that the Chinese and Indians will leave, creating a brain drain. Unfortunately, the Prime Minister has plans to expand the system.
This system is very divisive. My friend/escort only really took me to Chinese areas, as he wasn't really comfortable dealing with the Malay places. We went to a coffee place by my hotel, and though the food was good, the Malays treated us with indifference. It's kinda sad, really, as he should feel at home at home, anywhere he goes.
This trip was an eyeopener. I knew there was injustice in the world, but I got to see it first hand how it affects people where they live. My Malaysian friend, who is actually a Hong Konger reminded me: "We are really lucky. You're American. I'm Hong Konger. We can go back. These people can't. We have freedoms that these people don't."
(Drew's note: you can find a lot of material I discuss in my blog posts or my Facebook posts. I also post this critique knowing I have a lot to lose. Following Aung Sang Suu Kyi's statement: Use your freedom to fight for those who have none, I will do my best to be a voice in this ongoing struggle.)
I must explain something first: The title "Rainbow Tour" came from the musical Evita. Evita was beautiful, glamourous, and had that je ne sais quoi charismatic quality that can help influence things. She did after all, help her husband Juan Peron, get his presidency and stay in power. Regardless of the good and/or bad she did, I related to the charisma, beauty and her mission: to make friends and influence people.
I don't want to talk about what I accomplished on this trip in this post. I want to speak out about the things I saw, experienced and witnessed. What I experienced was a lot of injustice. I saw how ugly political and social agendas can be, though created with the best of intentions. Finally I witnessed what those things can do to people and societies that affects.
Hong Kong was interesting. It's been three years since my last visit. In my previous posts, I talk about how the civil rights of Hong Kongers -- The Basic Law -- is being chipped away at by Beijing. Way before its time, in 2047. A lot of signage was not bilingual -- English and Traditional Chinese. It was much harder to find someone who would talk to you in English. Though it did not bother me as much, as I utilized coping mechanisms I learned from assisting Latin American tourists at one of my jobs -- you know, the rude "I don't give a damn that you can't speak Spanish. Just pay me and leave. Thank you. Bye-bye!" mentality. I found it disturbing, as since Hong Kong has billed itself as "Asia's World City", that it isn't as international as it used to be. The majority of the signage that was bilingual was put out by the Government, as public service announcements.
People are mad, angry, and much more into themselves, as a result of Beijing's will being enforced. They will not have direct vote over their Chief Executive as promised. Mandarin and the system of indoctrination of the Communist Party will be imposed upon the youth in the next year or so, which means Cantonese will be gone in China, and can only be heard in overseas Chinese communities AND the youth will not hear about Tianamen Square in their history lessons. Even the police force is obligated to only support the pro-Beijing protesters. The rule of law is being trampled on.
And like Tibet and Xinjiang Autonomous Region, Hong Kong is being inundated by Mainland Chinese, who lack manners and social skills, and monopolize the cities' resources, driving consumer and property prices higher, in one of the most expensive cities in the world.
For example, infant formula, in many places, is something we take for granted. Because of food safety issues related to the quality of local brands and US/Aussie/European stocks can be hard to get, Mainlanders arrive in HK and hoard the supply. Retailers have imposed limits on how much they are allowed to buy, and they are reminded at Hong Kong International Airport, once more on how much they are allowed to take back to China, which is, I believe 2 canisters per party.
Mainland Trash (or Rubbish, if one prefers), I call them, are creating unnecessary conflict in a city whose problems seem to mount with their presence. Screw the economic benefit of Mainland money into the Hong Kong economy, it has many negative effects as well.
Hong Kongers did not choose this fate. It was decided for them, by Britain and Bejing. They should have had the right to choose, even if this is contrary to the Central Government's One China policy. I reckon that they are feeling disempowered, and are forced to accept the new order of things, without a fight. I guess Maggie Thatcher decided it wasn't worth the fight and getting NATO involved.
Unfortunately, the biggest losers will not be the Chinese Hong Kongers. It will be the expats, mainly of European decent, the Filipino/Indonesian/Malaysian contract workers, and the Indians are the decendants of the servants that the British brought with them. These people will be constantly reminded that they don't belong here, and will never successfully be integrated into HK society. Even with everything the Government has done to encourage diversity and integration.
A few years ago, I saw a Hong Kong Government video on the subject, where a white guy said he never had any problems dealing with anyone. Really? Is it because he's cloistered himself in expat circles and neighborhood, which offer a degree of protection and isolation, as well as support? What universe was he living in? Wow! I wonder if he is still in Hong Kong, how he feels about things as they have evolved into now.
What doesn't help is the HK English media doesn't report on the same things that the Chinese media does. So we get different impressions of what the reality is. It would be SO nice if we hear and see the same things that the locals do.
Singapore was refreshing. I felt more at home and safer than I ever did in HK. Which is weird, because I never really had serious drama there, save the crappy customer service bullshit. It kept its culture. It's cleaner. Though officially multi-lingual, English is widely spoken. I was impressed that a Singapore Post counter clerk went from Hindi, to Chinese, to Malay, and finally when dealing with me, English in a course of 20 minutes. Their system encourages diversity, as their history points out -- the city state was forced out of Malaysia over riots demanding equality for everyone.
Equality and prosperity comes at a price. Though one is allowed to vote for their government, their choices are few, as the ruling party has ruled since the formation of the country. There's a saying that is prominent with anything tourist oriented -- "Singapore is a Fine City" -- meaning on one hand, that it is a great place to visit, but on the other, one can get fined for the slightest infraction, like littering. Chewing Gum is banned and is confiscated upon arrival. Freedom of expression is tightly controlled. Another joke says that the only thing that Singaporeans can legally complain about without fear of jail is food.
The city has a better planned transit system, as cars are expensive to purchase, own and maintain there. MRT was easy to get around and had toilets at the stops. It just felt like home. More than Hong Kong ever did.
Malaysia is something I didn't get a chance to see much of. However, I am reminded of Cebu when Alan and I visited in 2006. Without the major tourist traps, casinos and traffic issues. But my escort and friend had given me the 411 about how this country works. Remember a few paragraphs ago I talked about equality?
There is a system that was created to distribute the wealth and social services to the poorest of Malaysians -- 60% of the country are Malay Muslims. The Malays get preferential treatment in housing, university, social services and government jobs. This leaves the Malaysians of Chinese and Indian decent, as well as the indigenous peoples out of this equation. The Chinese and Indians create the bulk of Malaysian wealth, but aren't allowed to participate fully.
The elections in May were racked with allegations of fraud, and many Malaysians regard it as a joke. One of the major issues was this system, this 'great equalizer'. Unless this is reformed, it is reported that the Chinese and Indians will leave, creating a brain drain. Unfortunately, the Prime Minister has plans to expand the system.
This system is very divisive. My friend/escort only really took me to Chinese areas, as he wasn't really comfortable dealing with the Malay places. We went to a coffee place by my hotel, and though the food was good, the Malays treated us with indifference. It's kinda sad, really, as he should feel at home at home, anywhere he goes.
This trip was an eyeopener. I knew there was injustice in the world, but I got to see it first hand how it affects people where they live. My Malaysian friend, who is actually a Hong Konger reminded me: "We are really lucky. You're American. I'm Hong Konger. We can go back. These people can't. We have freedoms that these people don't."
(Drew's note: you can find a lot of material I discuss in my blog posts or my Facebook posts. I also post this critique knowing I have a lot to lose. Following Aung Sang Suu Kyi's statement: Use your freedom to fight for those who have none, I will do my best to be a voice in this ongoing struggle.)
Professionalism matters
I do
not appreciate being flipped off after I tell you that you lack the
professional qualifications to be successful working for my business.
Alas, karma is a biatch, may she follow you....
Beijing rejects full democracy for next HK leader
From Associated Press: Beijing rejects full democracy for next HK leader
Central Government: You are tearing away at the Basic Law bit by bit WAY before its time. What you're doing is wrong. Give the people what was promised them, don't make the handover a joke. Direct vote was promised to them, then it keeps getting delayed, and now denied. Hong Kong could have been an example for what China could be. Make it mean something, other HK being another territory to control.
Central Government: You are tearing away at the Basic Law bit by bit WAY before its time. What you're doing is wrong. Give the people what was promised them, don't make the handover a joke. Direct vote was promised to them, then it keeps getting delayed, and now denied. Hong Kong could have been an example for what China could be. Make it mean something, other HK being another territory to control.
Malaysia bolsters affirmative action for Malays
From Associated Press: Malaysia bolsters affirmative action for Malays
This "great equalizer" is a massive fail on the part of the Malaysian government. Instead of making things better, it separates and polarizes the citizenry. The 40% that this scheme doesn't benefit may force people to leave for lack of equity and opportunity. It makes equality on all levels of living in that country a joke.
This "great equalizer" is a massive fail on the part of the Malaysian government. Instead of making things better, it separates and polarizes the citizenry. The 40% that this scheme doesn't benefit may force people to leave for lack of equity and opportunity. It makes equality on all levels of living in that country a joke.
Watch your f-ing mouth!!!
I
value honest and direct feedback. However, some people need to know when
to use a f-ing filter for their mouths, lest the recipient takes it the
wrong way and the message is lost.
Improving Orlando's low-wage economy takes work
From Orlando Sentinel: Improving Orlando's low-wage economy takes work
This is proof that the economic recovery hasn't reached those who really need to benefit from it.
This is proof that the economic recovery hasn't reached those who really need to benefit from it.
Amid slow economic recovery, more Americans identify as 'lower class'
From LA Times: Amid slow economic recovery, more Americans identify as 'lower class'
We as Americans need to speak out more about the inequities in the system. Let our government and those who influence it know this needs to be fixed. And we need to be part of the solution.
We as Americans need to speak out more about the inequities in the system. Let our government and those who influence it know this needs to be fixed. And we need to be part of the solution.
Did Communist Party Torture Man to Death?
CNN Video: Did Communist Party Torture Man to Death?
The truth must be told, and spoken for the behalf of those who cannot speak.
The truth must be told, and spoken for the behalf of those who cannot speak.
The rule of law must prevail.
As the Central Government chips away at the Basic Law way before its time, we all must speak out and hold Beijing accountable for its erosion of civil liberties in Hong Kong.
15 August 2013
19 July 2013
How do we stop racism?
The point being: When we can refer to each other as people, rather than
*factors based on physical appearance, gender/gender identification, social and economic levels, and other internal and external factors in which we tend to judge and discriminate.
17 July 2013
Hikikomori: Your stories about refusing to leave bedrooms
Hikikomori: Your stories about refusing to leave bedrooms
One of the more touching stories in this article, which describes most of my high school experience:
This describes me, aged 11-16. As a child I had always been happy to play alone, but had never been wary of social interaction. At secondary school, I was bullied. I didn't feel I could stand my ground, so I withdrew. I didn't want to spend time with anyone. Not even my family. I would spend hours in my room watching TV, cleaning it, reading, drawing, listening to music - so long as it didn't require speaking to people. The fact that I was coming to terms with being gay was also a major factor, and I felt the world didn't want to accept me. On the odd occasions that I went outside, I was terrified about being recognised. I went to great lengths to avoid this, wearing hats, hoods and sunglasses. I broke out of the cycle when I started to find friends who would invite me out, and the bullying subsided. Once I had a social life I could be confident in, I no longer needed or wanted to stay in my room all the time. That period of my life has had a lasting impact on how I behave. I still feel the need to withdraw into my own company, although not to an extent that is abnormal. I sometimes lack confidence, and have paranoid thoughts about what people think of me. It seems I am fortunate that I managed to break free. Tristan, Bristol, UK
I eventually found the strength and courage to start making friends outside of school, which lead to my coming out. When I did that, I was able to bolster my circle of friends and support system. I still have issues with withdrawal, so don't let my gregarious and enthusiastic facade fool you. Until I know you and feel safe with you, people only get to know the sides I need you to know about me.
One of the more touching stories in this article, which describes most of my high school experience:
This describes me, aged 11-16. As a child I had always been happy to play alone, but had never been wary of social interaction. At secondary school, I was bullied. I didn't feel I could stand my ground, so I withdrew. I didn't want to spend time with anyone. Not even my family. I would spend hours in my room watching TV, cleaning it, reading, drawing, listening to music - so long as it didn't require speaking to people. The fact that I was coming to terms with being gay was also a major factor, and I felt the world didn't want to accept me. On the odd occasions that I went outside, I was terrified about being recognised. I went to great lengths to avoid this, wearing hats, hoods and sunglasses. I broke out of the cycle when I started to find friends who would invite me out, and the bullying subsided. Once I had a social life I could be confident in, I no longer needed or wanted to stay in my room all the time. That period of my life has had a lasting impact on how I behave. I still feel the need to withdraw into my own company, although not to an extent that is abnormal. I sometimes lack confidence, and have paranoid thoughts about what people think of me. It seems I am fortunate that I managed to break free. Tristan, Bristol, UK
I eventually found the strength and courage to start making friends outside of school, which lead to my coming out. When I did that, I was able to bolster my circle of friends and support system. I still have issues with withdrawal, so don't let my gregarious and enthusiastic facade fool you. Until I know you and feel safe with you, people only get to know the sides I need you to know about me.
Funny Or Not?
Asiana jokes: Racist or just bad taste?
In this case, bad taste. But it did remind me of the crank callers of my youth seeing if PBX operators would page 'Mike Hunt' over their paging systems. The funny part in both scenarios to me is the unlucky person who doesn't catch it in time and announces it, as though nothing is wrong.
We all have made jokes about stereotypes, we just have to be aware of context and audience. One of my best friends likes to use the story of when my mom cussed him out on the phone, because she couldn't hear him on the other end. He tells it, play by play, complete with Asian accents. It's hysterical!
To me, stereotypical jokes is a matter of how it's being used, when its being used, and the target audience whether its funny or not. Some aren't really funny, some are hysterical but many are in between, provoking many different reactions.
Which taught me this: I keep my humor to myself, and share it only with people when appropriate. Unless it has a universal theme, like cooking and burning Rice-A-Roni.
In this case, bad taste. But it did remind me of the crank callers of my youth seeing if PBX operators would page 'Mike Hunt' over their paging systems. The funny part in both scenarios to me is the unlucky person who doesn't catch it in time and announces it, as though nothing is wrong.
We all have made jokes about stereotypes, we just have to be aware of context and audience. One of my best friends likes to use the story of when my mom cussed him out on the phone, because she couldn't hear him on the other end. He tells it, play by play, complete with Asian accents. It's hysterical!
To me, stereotypical jokes is a matter of how it's being used, when its being used, and the target audience whether its funny or not. Some aren't really funny, some are hysterical but many are in between, provoking many different reactions.
Which taught me this: I keep my humor to myself, and share it only with people when appropriate. Unless it has a universal theme, like cooking and burning Rice-A-Roni.
16 July 2013
McDonald's Can't Figure Out How Its Workers Survive on Minimum Wage
McDonald's Can't Figure Out How Its Workers Survive on Minimum Wage
Control-Shift-DUH! Large companies are so out of touch with how their employees live on what they get paid. They need to live their lives for a day, week or even a month to fully understand how much these workers are uh.... Used.
05 July 2013
In Honor of our Servicewomen and men
In honor of those who served their country freely, defending the ideals and values of our nation and keeping the peace around the world.
"Camo", by Kelly Zak, "Purple Heart", by Thalia Hel. For AEOStudios.
No More War
"Last Night I Had The Strangest Dream"
Last night I had the strangest dream
I ever dreamed before
I dreamed the world had all agreed
To put an end to war
I dreamed I saw a mighty room
The room was filled with men
And the paper they were signing said
They'd never fight again
And the people in the streets below
Were dancing round and round
And guns and swords and uniforms
Were scattered on the ground
Last night I had the strangest dream
I ever dreamed before
I dreamed the world had all agreed
To put an end to war
-- Lyrics and music, Ed McCurdy
26 June 2013
Crucifying Paula Deen: Was it necessary?
The answer for me is no. It goes for everyone -- public and private. If they express remorse, then let them redeem themselves and let it be. If they hadn't learned their lesson, then they need to be sanctioned and scrutinized. We all say things we don't mean, taken the wrong way and/or misunderstood and misused. We all know its not ok. Remind them harshly and move on. That should take care of it. Crucify them if they are repeat offenders. Making them disappear or lose their position is a bit extreme.
24 June 2013
Orlando: Tops in tourism, near bottom in income
www.orlandosentinel.com: Orlando: Tops in tourism, near bottom in income
And people wonder why people in Orlando are stressed out, drive like maniacs, don't live here for very long, and if you are served outside the theme parks, are treated with disrespect and indifference. It's frustrating. I thought I got a bargain moving here, but I'm paying the price for doing so. And the Republican governments and legislators here aren't helping, passing legislation that could help the poor, the working class, or the middle class.
And people wonder why people in Orlando are stressed out, drive like maniacs, don't live here for very long, and if you are served outside the theme parks, are treated with disrespect and indifference. It's frustrating. I thought I got a bargain moving here, but I'm paying the price for doing so. And the Republican governments and legislators here aren't helping, passing legislation that could help the poor, the working class, or the middle class.
Basic managerial skills thought
Just a
thought on basic managerial skills: newbies are low knowledge/talent
and high maintenance. Why? They are learning a new job or adjusting to a
new environment. The old timers should be high talent/knowledge and low
maintenance.
How one manages and treats their staff will determine whether or not they will become high maintenance too. Treat us with respect, understand the line between getting the job done AND being everyone's ally and use positive motivating tactics.
How one manages and treats their staff will determine whether or not they will become high maintenance too. Treat us with respect, understand the line between getting the job done AND being everyone's ally and use positive motivating tactics.
17 June 2013
Keep it clean
The Taylor Chapman post has gotten a lot of attention from many readers. And I have gotten a lot of colorful responses because of it. I thought I was profane with my use of swear words in this and other posts in my blog, but the responses I had to screen were much more offensive. So therefore, I was only able to share only one response.
I don't use the C-word lightly. I reserve it for those who have wholeheartedly offended me or others by their acts and/or deeds. It's a very disempowering word, for both the subject, and the part of the body that it refers to. So, if I feel if one deserves being called that word, then, I shall use it. Otherwise, it sends shivers down my spine if it is used like a common swear word, like shit, fuck and damn, because the C-word should be used sparingly and only when deserved.
I welcome responses to my posts. Please keep it as clean as much as you can while expressing the essence of your feelings. I know one can be articulate while dropping every other word as a swear word, since that was how I talked as a young community activist in the 1990s. However, it can be overkill and could risk losing the overall message you are trying to convey. Since the audience is everyone, I want to make sure you are able to share your thoughts and feelings with everyone, as I have with all of you.
I don't use the C-word lightly. I reserve it for those who have wholeheartedly offended me or others by their acts and/or deeds. It's a very disempowering word, for both the subject, and the part of the body that it refers to. So, if I feel if one deserves being called that word, then, I shall use it. Otherwise, it sends shivers down my spine if it is used like a common swear word, like shit, fuck and damn, because the C-word should be used sparingly and only when deserved.
I welcome responses to my posts. Please keep it as clean as much as you can while expressing the essence of your feelings. I know one can be articulate while dropping every other word as a swear word, since that was how I talked as a young community activist in the 1990s. However, it can be overkill and could risk losing the overall message you are trying to convey. Since the audience is everyone, I want to make sure you are able to share your thoughts and feelings with everyone, as I have with all of you.
16 June 2013
My eBay rant -- they suck
eBay used to be a great place to sell and market stuff, and is a big moneymaker for me.
But, between the buyers that abuse the system, the sellers trying to scam, and the need for more regulation, rules and penalties for the rule breakers, it totally blows.
They sent me a list of 300 items -- item numbers only, no description -- that needed updated pictures that meet their fucking standards. Half those pics met those standards AND these were not easy to fucking find to revise. Then I tried to upload them, and they wouldn't let me. I just spent 6 hours of my damn life doing something they're making me do, to be told I can't.
I sent two bitchy emails about how inefficient this is. Yes, they gave us warning, but they should have used their stupid Turbo Lister program to tell us of non-compliance, like it screens everything we try to list for duplication, wording in violation of terms of service, things we forgot to include in a listing, etc. INSTEAD of giving a list of only numbers what needs to be revised. I could have been more proactive if I actually knew what the items are and also editing the inventory -- the original -- item listing for future use.
Trying to talk to them is no use. At this time of the night, if they're still open, I'll be talking to some idiot Filipino outsourced customer service person who can only say "I'm sorry" and not be a part of a solution, that many eBay sellers like myself are pretty pissed off about. It's not that they won't, but they're trained to read from a script, don't utilize critical thinking skills or creating problem solving.
And now, I'm having issues trying to fix 'errors' and uploading. Can anything be easier with eBay anymore?!? It's 345am, I'm fried, tired and really need to get to bed. Grrr!!!
But, between the buyers that abuse the system, the sellers trying to scam, and the need for more regulation, rules and penalties for the rule breakers, it totally blows.
They sent me a list of 300 items -- item numbers only, no description -- that needed updated pictures that meet their fucking standards. Half those pics met those standards AND these were not easy to fucking find to revise. Then I tried to upload them, and they wouldn't let me. I just spent 6 hours of my damn life doing something they're making me do, to be told I can't.
I sent two bitchy emails about how inefficient this is. Yes, they gave us warning, but they should have used their stupid Turbo Lister program to tell us of non-compliance, like it screens everything we try to list for duplication, wording in violation of terms of service, things we forgot to include in a listing, etc. INSTEAD of giving a list of only numbers what needs to be revised. I could have been more proactive if I actually knew what the items are and also editing the inventory -- the original -- item listing for future use.
Trying to talk to them is no use. At this time of the night, if they're still open, I'll be talking to some idiot Filipino outsourced customer service person who can only say "I'm sorry" and not be a part of a solution, that many eBay sellers like myself are pretty pissed off about. It's not that they won't, but they're trained to read from a script, don't utilize critical thinking skills or creating problem solving.
And now, I'm having issues trying to fix 'errors' and uploading. Can anything be easier with eBay anymore?!? It's 345am, I'm fried, tired and really need to get to bed. Grrr!!!
12 June 2013
Another reason to resent the Republicans
Their code words are so anti 'the people', it's not even funny! They remind me of those who practice Confuscianism, where in order to look good and safe face, will deflect and avoid responsibility for their actions, and instead, blame others for why 'the system' doesn't work. GOP legislators make me sick.
The Irony of It All
First Marvel, then the Muppets, Pixar, and now Star Wars.... What next?
Corporate monopoly at its finest!
Taylor Chapman -- What a cunt!
I hate to use words like this, but what a fucking nasty cunt! People like her need to be shot or be sent to a third world country to scrounge for her food. Better yet sent to a prison in a third world country, where she can eat bugs while waiting to be executed.
OR the alternative, since she's probably regretting her actions now: She should lose her right to live here as a citizen and sent to a country where she can no longer enjoy the same comforts she abuses. No cash, designer clothing, smart phone, warm water, cars, safe edible food, or even Dunkin Donuts. She should live on the streets begging for her supper or a safe place to sleep.
There are other ways to resolve issues, without abusing the customer service resolution process, or just plain abusing the employees. Shame on her.
But as it is said, karma's a bitch, right?
04 June 2013
For Tianamen Square
In memoriam of June 4, 1989, the anniversary of the protests at Tianamen Square. Let us not forget the tyranny of a government, but not lose hope that someday, the truth will see the light, and national reconciliation of this and other Central Government wrongdoings will begin.
Karma's a bitch, isn't it?
The three of you -- and others -- were promoted way too fast, without the benefit of proper training and development. You got away with stuff because you lied, stretched the truth, and deflected blame and responsibility onto unsuspecting others, like me, who after standing up to you, is persona non grata. And now, your tactic of self-destructing your own event so you can blame a lawsuit you lost is just lame. The planning for this event is showing all your weaknesses and shortcomings for all to see. The three of you will not survive this. Karma's a bitch, isn't it?
30 May 2013
29 May 2013
Travelers, learn some manners!!!
Chinese, Brazilians and other South Americans, even my fellow Americans and assorted international travellers.... Learn some fucking manners! Your service providers will care about you more and will be more sincere about helping you. Bad behavior is a turn off, as it causes us not to care about you or the service we give you. Though travelling as private citizens, you are representatives of your country, and how one acts is the impression of how people in your home country behave. From CNN.
China calls on citizens to be 'civilized'
China calls on citizens to be 'civilized'
09 May 2013
Ab and Bitch, I mean Abercrombie and Fitch
As
a former Ab and Fitch fan, I don't agree with the message and images
they're trying to pawn as acceptable and normal. Think high school kids
teasing and bullying the others because they are (fill in blank). This
is a label of abuse, perhaps on the same level of the garment factories
that make this stuff.
Ab
and Bitch will never go away until people realize that this brand
perpetuates the wrong concepts about body image AND how people should
look AND treat each other. I can't in good conscious wear their label anymore. It helps that they are priced out of my poor starving artist budget.
Did I mention I miss wearing their pants and
shorts? They hide my sorry excuse of a waistline.
Proper language, please
The ability to communicate properly is important to me. Taking the time to write and speak properly tells a lot about how one presents themselves. Not a snob, just very aware that people do judge me based on those merits alone also.
06 May 2013
What good are rules?
Uh.... One of the reasons people are working my last nerve: what good are rules, guidelines, laws, policies, etc. when they are applied inconsistently and when convenient? They were put there for a reason. Yes there are exceptions, but it's annoying when there's no respect for them.
27 April 2013
18 April 2013
Living Alone, Older, or By Yourself A Lot?
Something
that I just thought of -- if living alone, by yourself a lot, or uh....
'older', create a system of communication with a network of family,
friends, and neighbors that you trust so if they don't hear from you
within an established time frame, they can start worrying about you and
do the necessary things to make sure you're OK. You don't have to
divulge in details, just send a sign that you're fine.
Whole lot of stupid
A
whole lot of stupid, coming from a whole lot of idiocy. Deep
breaths.... But be warned, if one hits that stupid button way too many
times today, I might just have to wreck their career, even before it
starts. Fighting
the urge to run to WalMart to get a Nerf baseball bat right now. Need
to uh, hit some balls. Yeah, that's what I was going to do. Hit some
balls.... Tired of dealing with this whole lot of stupid.
11 April 2013
NEVER DO THIS TO A PERSPECTIVE EMPLOYER, PART 2 (donny003@cfl.rr.com/Donald "Donte" Culp)
From donny003@cfl.rr.com:
Dear Disrespectful Dipshit,
TIME WILL TELL WANNA BE, JUST CAUSE U PUT IT WITH NO CURSE WORDS U THINK U CAN DISRESPECT SOME+CALL IT CONSTRUCTIVE, I GAVE U CRITICISM WHICH OBVIOUSLY U CAN'T TAKE, TAKE UR OWN ADVICE TO HEART….COCKY BASTARDS LIKE U GIVE INDUSTRY A BAD NAME+R TOXIC, IF THEY KNEW UR NAME….GOOD LUCK;)
Donald,
With that attitude, you will not go anywhere.
People like you give the industry a bad name. And because we rejected you and gave you constructive criticism, and gave us nastyness in return, means you will not go far. Belittling someone or a company because you didn't like what you read, will also get around, as people in the industry talk to each other. You just committed a serious sin.
People like you are wannabes, and will never get anywhere, because wannabes are toxic to the profession and industry. Until you decide to change your mindset and attitude, no one will want to deal with you, that is how toxic you are.
I would take the same advice you just gave us, and take it to heart.
Good luck with your pursuits.
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Go fuck yourself. Who tha fuck r u????
Funny thing just like me, nobodies ever heard of u, what do u do donkey??????
Small
world and nobody knows who u r just some dipshit trying to make
something out of nothing with interns meaning you can't afford shit ur a
low brow studio.
Frankly after reading and looking at ur
pathetic website(I have too, oh)this I can tell ur a book smart pussy
with no ideas, read another book and try and steal people's ideas to
make them urs.
How many people do u employee??????
My
resume may not be what ur looking for yet book smart pussies can't
handle life or what comes out,I've lived and partied like a rockstar but
I still don't act like I am better than people cause people disappear
all tha time.
Very rude buddy think ur better than people, GO FUCK URSELF+UR COMPANY SMALL TIME NOBODY!!!BITCH!!!
GO FUCK URSELF,
DONALD:)
P.S. I ALREADY GOT INTERNSHIP:) TESTING
Another email from him
TIME WILL TELL WANNA BE, JUST CAUSE U PUT IT WITH NO CURSE WORDS U THINK U CAN DISRESPECT SOME+CALL IT CONSTRUCTIVE, I GAVE U CRITICISM WHICH OBVIOUSLY U CAN'T TAKE, TAKE UR OWN ADVICE TO HEART….COCKY BASTARDS LIKE U GIVE INDUSTRY A BAD NAME+R TOXIC, IF THEY KNEW UR NAME….GOOD LUCK;)
My response
Donald,
With that attitude, you will not go anywhere.
People like you give the industry a bad name. And because we rejected you and gave you constructive criticism, and gave us nastyness in return, means you will not go far. Belittling someone or a company because you didn't like what you read, will also get around, as people in the industry talk to each other. You just committed a serious sin.
People like you are wannabes, and will never get anywhere, because wannabes are toxic to the profession and industry. Until you decide to change your mindset and attitude, no one will want to deal with you, that is how toxic you are.
I would take the same advice you just gave us, and take it to heart.
Good luck with your pursuits.
My original email with critique and feedback
Donald,
Thank you for your submission. We have received your resume.
After reviewing it, a few questions come to mind:
What do you know about us?
Have you done any research about what we do?
How do your skills apply to what we do?
What have you done in the industry?
Why are you interested in what we do?
Why do you want to learn what we do? Are you passionate about learning about special effects?
What are your proficiencies in what we do?
Where are you at in your professional development/training/education? What relevant coursework have you taken?
How will this help you in pursuing your art/craft?
Frankly, after reading this, I'm glad that you can potentially build a set for either stage or film/TV, are experienced in the field of customer service, and have applicable computer skills, you have not told us why we would be a good fit. Nor have you told us what you can bring to our organization, or even, apply your work experience, education and knowledge to what we do. It looks like you just saw the word internship on our website, and sent us a letter of interest with experiences that have NOTHING to do with Special Effects, without showing the respect to the person reading this. By sending a 'blanket' letter of interest and a general resume, it comes across like you don't care. Which means, we don't either.
Should you be embarrassed by what you have submitted to us? Yup. This may sound cold, but our training as professionals have taught the individuals that work for for us the importance of self promotion, image presentation, and professionalism. What you have submitted does not inspire or compel us to continue the conversation.
We offer these suggestions for future job and internship searches:
Do your research. You need to tailor whatever you submit, to the prospective company.
Tie your experiences into how they can be used in their business.
We don't care about your work experience in real life. We care about the experience in the industry. A list of credits of what you've done AND a website, a comp sheet or a DVD demo reel that displays your work goes a long way to demonstrate skills and committment.
Tell the perspective company these things: why you want to work with them, what you can offer, how your experiences can help them, AND where you're at in your professional development and education.
You must sell yourself and your professional skills very quickly, regardless of how you contact someone -- the first paragraph of an email or letter sets the tone about how the reader feels about your submission -- or we don't care, and the resume ends up in the trash or deleted.
We will keep your resume on file, in the event we can use you in the future.
Thank you for taking the time to write to us. We hope the suggestions and critique will assist you in the future.
05 April 2013
There are limits to posting publically
I allow a lot of latitude to what my Facebook
peeps post on my wall, allowing for a diverse exchange of trains of
thoughts and opinions, there are just some things that are just
unacceptable and downright offensive. I exercise the right to hide said
posts, limit how much I see from you, or just outright unfriend you,
freely, and the feelings are reciprocal.
Lesson here is: please remember in the online world, there are still limits of what is acceptable to post publicly. I strive for a PG-13 rating at all times.
Besides, this is what blogs and websites are for: To express oneself in a forum that is considered their space and which is not necessarily public, where the audience actually wants to specifically read what you post -- uncensored and unrestricted -- and the ratings and responses of said posts, are more than PG-13.
Lesson here is: please remember in the online world, there are still limits of what is acceptable to post publicly. I strive for a PG-13 rating at all times.
Besides, this is what blogs and websites are for: To express oneself in a forum that is considered their space and which is not necessarily public, where the audience actually wants to specifically read what you post -- uncensored and unrestricted -- and the ratings and responses of said posts, are more than PG-13.
01 April 2013
28 March 2013
Yes, this is an enema twin pack
I dedicate this to those who need to be cleansed of their stuff.
I have concluded there are people that need to use this, and often, as cleansing seems to clear a few things out, shall we say.
To all those who annoy, aggravate or anger me, a dedication
And I mean this in a kind, loving and compassionate way.... (evil laugh)
26 March 2013
25 March 2013
So anti Florida Hospital
I really hate Florida Hospital.... Demanding
prepayment for a procedure that we don't even know what the final total
for it is. They called me, demanding I make payment arrangements on Monday. They asked me today about financial arrangements when I went in for pre procedure tests. Talk about Christ and the Moneylenders in the temple.
There's a time and place to have the discussion. AFTER the procedure. AFTER the totals have been added up and my insurance portion has actually been applied. AFTER I get the bill.
That is just as bad as demanding prepayment for ER services while the patient is under sedation, which is what they did to my other half. We were so offended, I had the financial services idiot escorted out of the exam room. We are not in a Third World Country, where payment for services is required at that time, and shouldn't be treated as such. I understand that they have bills to pay and are trying to be proactive to avoid financial losses, but this is the wrong way to go about it!!!
What pisses me off even more, is I received better treatment overall during worker's comp injuries through one of my other employers, which just happens to be one of the largest employers in Orlando, and is one of their partners. They need to treat everyone equally, with respect and dignity.
There's a time and place to have the discussion. AFTER the procedure. AFTER the totals have been added up and my insurance portion has actually been applied. AFTER I get the bill.
That is just as bad as demanding prepayment for ER services while the patient is under sedation, which is what they did to my other half. We were so offended, I had the financial services idiot escorted out of the exam room. We are not in a Third World Country, where payment for services is required at that time, and shouldn't be treated as such. I understand that they have bills to pay and are trying to be proactive to avoid financial losses, but this is the wrong way to go about it!!!
What pisses me off even more, is I received better treatment overall during worker's comp injuries through one of my other employers, which just happens to be one of the largest employers in Orlando, and is one of their partners. They need to treat everyone equally, with respect and dignity.
24 March 2013
Never do this to a perspective employer
Subject: Intern
My name is (name deleted) I’m a student
at UCF. I’m working on my bachelor’s degree. My major is cinema studies.
I’m available Tuesday’s and Thursday’s. My
resume is below....
(What follows is a list of work experience that has nothing to do with what I do.)
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My response:
Dear (name deleted)
We have received your resume. After reviewing it, a few questions come to mind:
What do you know about us?
Have you done any research about what we do?
How do your skills apply to what we do?
What have you done in the industry?
Why are you interested in what we do?
Why do you want to learn what we do?
What are your proficiencies in what we do?
Where are you at in your professional development/training/
How will this help you in pursuing your art/craft?
Frankly, after reading this, I'm glad that you can work with children, first aid certified, have an AA from (school deleted) and have
applicable computer skills, you have not told us why we would be a good
fit. Nor have you told us what you can bring to our organization, or
even, apply your work experience, education and knowledge to what we
do. It looks like you just saw the word internship on our website, and
sent us a letter of interest with experiences that have NOTHING to do
with Special Effects, without showing the respect to the person reading
this. By sending a 'blanket' letter of interest and a general resume,
it comes across like you don't care. Which means, we don't either.
Should you be embarrassed by what you have submitted to us? Yup.
Consider yourself extremely lucky, that we took the time to respond to this, as most people would be so offended and enraged by the lack of professional consideration, this would end up in trash, literally and figuratively. However, we believe in helping fellow artists, to help them elevate themselves to higher standards, so we offer a few words.
Advice to save you from further professional embarrassment:
Do your research. You need to tailor whatever you submit to them.
Tie your experiences into how they can be used in their business.
We don't care about your work experience. We care about the experience in the industry. A list of credits of what you've done AND a website or a comp sheet that displays your work goes a long way to demonstrate skills and committment.
Tell the perspective company these things: why you want to work with them, what you can offer, how your experiences can help them, AND where you're at in your professional development and education.
You have to sell yourself and your professional skills very quickly, regardless of how you contact someone -- the first paragraph of an email or letter. Or we don't care, and the resume ends up in the trash or deleted.
We are not mad at you. We are appalled that prospective interns, such as yourself, have demonstrated lack of professionalism by committing some serious job/internship hunting sins.
We wish you many successes in your internship search. We hope that this diatribe helps you be more focused, precise, and professional to others that you will be submitting to, as not to waste their time, as you have ours.
No response is required or necessary.
Very Truly Yours,
Me
My name is
(What follows is a list of work experience that has nothing to do with what I do.)
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My response:
Dear (name deleted)
We have received your resume. After reviewing it, a few questions come to mind:
What do you know about us?
Have you done any research about what we do?
How do your skills apply to what we do?
What have you done in the industry?
Why are you interested in what we do?
Why do you want to learn what we do?
What are your proficiencies in what we do?
Where are you at in your professional development/training/
How will this help you in pursuing your art/craft?
Frankly, after reading this, I'm glad that you can work with children, first aid certified, have an AA from (school deleted)
Should you be embarrassed by what you have submitted to us? Yup.
Consider yourself extremely lucky, that we took the time to respond to this, as most people would be so offended and enraged by the lack of professional consideration, this would end up in trash, literally and figuratively. However, we believe in helping fellow artists, to help them elevate themselves to higher standards, so we offer a few words.
Advice to save you from further professional embarrassment:
Do your research. You need to tailor whatever you submit to them.
Tie your experiences into how they can be used in their business.
We don't care about your work experience. We care about the experience in the industry. A list of credits of what you've done AND a website or a comp sheet that displays your work goes a long way to demonstrate skills and committment.
Tell the perspective company these things: why you want to work with them, what you can offer, how your experiences can help them, AND where you're at in your professional development and education.
You have to sell yourself and your professional skills very quickly, regardless of how you contact someone -- the first paragraph of an email or letter. Or we don't care, and the resume ends up in the trash or deleted.
We are not mad at you. We are appalled that prospective interns, such as yourself, have demonstrated lack of professionalism by committing some serious job/internship hunting sins.
We wish you many successes in your internship search. We hope that this diatribe helps you be more focused, precise, and professional to others that you will be submitting to, as not to waste their time, as you have ours.
No response is required or necessary.
Very Truly Yours,
Me
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